The ABC's of Reloading By Dean A Grennell
RCBS presses are great. I have a Lee Single Stage and Turret. There are several "other thingys you will want...Like a scale..I like Lee dies get carbide for pistol rounds so you don't have to lube cases.
Get some Lee 3 or 4 hole Turrets to easily swap out Dies.
38 special is a good one to learn on.
Unique is a good starter powder
Much more to say after you've looked at some web sites and a few books.
You can get the Speer, Hornady and Lee reloading books
Your wife will curse the name of Larry Potterfield...owner of Midway USA.
Your wife will come to hate the UPS man making deliveries.
Oh yeah...you need a good sturdy work bench...There was athread here listing one...but some said the link had a virus so I stayed away
This ought to get you started....I'm no expert but enjoy the task of reloading....It's not cheaper either... so don't tell that to the wife...it does let you shoot more and you can find out what your gun likes best.
Good luck finding primers...its been an adventure